At any date, especially with the potential audience you are investigating, you tend to compare every action of that person to your best friend. Are they not as funny, considerate and gentle as their friends? Can’t they connect with their feelings.
And as the comparison gradually skews toward your best friend, all you will do is distance yourself from the investigating person and have negative feelings if you can’t stop the “ambiguity. “To that person who is inquire. The sign that you’ve always felt bad about your dates is the result of your best friend being too deeply influenced and becoming a role model for any encounter you seek. .